Anonymous said: i miss him so much and i dont know when ill see him next. it has already been almost a year :( i messed up :(

I said:

just message himm! 

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Anonymous said: so theres this guy i like but i havent seen or talk to him for about a year. i dont know when the next time i will see him be but i really miss him but im scared to just msg him..

I said:

just message him! or else youre going to be waiting around forever wondering if you should or not 

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Anonymous said: Do you have experience with taking anti depressants? I just started taking Zoloft (like 3 days) and I know it's not supposed to work right away but I feel way worse than before. Is that a bad sign or is that normal. Also do you know any other side effects? Thanks

I said:

i think i read once that sometimes they could make you feel worse.. but i would just wait a few more days and see if it starts to work! i never took anti depressants, but i would just google the side effects! if you still think its not working tell the doctor ! 

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Anonymous said: how do you friend zone someone? and nicely?

I said:

i would just emphasize how they are such a great friend and stuff. and if they seem like theyre not getting it just confront them and tell them you dont like them like that… nicely :) 

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Anonymous said: there's this guy, not in any of my classes, but I find him very attractive, and I feel as though he stares at me while switching classes (unless Im over-reacting) but I've never had a boyfriend, and this is the only guy that has caught my attention, mainly because he's quiet and not loud and obnoxious I guess

I said:

well try to talk to him or something between classes like even a small hi or a smile is a start. maybe hell get the courage to start talking to you more as well if you do.

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Anonymous said: ive been talking to 1 of my guy friends for about a week or 2 now and for me, we're friends and thats as far as itll go. but i dunno what hes thinking. we've been friends for lot of years now and we've never really talked this much but when we text each other, its very casual and like just keeping a conversation going but i dunno if hes feeling differently. he also asked me to go eat and i said sure since we're just friends but when i went i realize he didnt ask anyone else..what does it mean?:/

I said:

idk maybe he just wants to hang out with you! when he starts flirting and asking you to hang out like more than once or twice a week then i would start thinking he has feelings. but none of this seems too abnormal for  friends ! just wait and see if he starts flirting ! 

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Anonymous said: I'm known as really put together, picky & high maintenance. That's just because I try to stay as classy as possible & I'm choosy on who I decide to go far sexually with. The thing is, when I am with a guy which isn't often since I'm so picky, they treat me like this gentle girl that they have to be careful with when really I have always wanted Rough sex, how do I even bring this up? I don't want to seem trashy but I want my needs fulfilled!

I said:

i think that when youre finally with a guy, you need to show him how rough you can be. push him down, get on top, make out with him hardcore. just like take charge. thats not trashy, thatll show him that you can be aggressive 

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Anonymous said: So like I was just messing with people on omegle video on Sunday and I met a guy and we really clicked. We talked for about an hour or two. He was so sweet and hilarious. The thing is he reminds me of my ex alot.. In the end my mom made me turn off my laptop for bed. Before I said bye, I asked for his twitter and he also gave me his number. I searched for his twitter & nothing came up. I want to text him but its been like 3 days. I'm scared it will be awkward. Should I just leave it or..

I said:

hey if you think theres something potentially there, then go for it ! just text him and see if he responds and just talk like you wereee ! if you think its just a random thing that happened then i wouldnt bother

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Anonymous said: idk what to do because i'm a lesbian and my roommate is bisexual and we've hooked up a couple of times but she's talking to this guy now and i'm really upset because i kind of really like her and now we have to live together what should i do?

I said:

i think you should just wait a little and see how much it bothers you, or if you could find someone else. if you cant after like a few weeks or so, tell her how you feel and how it bothers you that shes seeing this guy. or you can even tell her first! i would recommend waiting, because what if shes really happy and/or you find someone! but good luck ! 

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Anonymous said: thanks for responding, sorry if im picky but ive seen a few of those,how bout more romcoms/chickflciks maybe?

I said:

a walk to remember, the notebook, the vow omg, white chicks deffs. mean girls obviously. john tucker must die, 21 and over.. sorry idr what i said last time haha. watch a step up movie or something :) 

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