Anonymous said: I'm known as really put together, picky & high maintenance. That's just because I try to stay as classy as possible & I'm choosy on who I decide to go far sexually with. The thing is, when I am with a guy which isn't often since I'm so picky, they treat me like this gentle girl that they have to be careful with when really I have always wanted Rough sex, how do I even bring this up? I don't want to seem trashy but I want my needs fulfilled!

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i think that when youre finally with a guy, you need to show him how rough you can be. push him down, get on top, make out with him hardcore. just like take charge. thats not trashy, thatll show him that you can be aggressive 

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Anonymous said: So like I was just messing with people on omegle video on Sunday and I met a guy and we really clicked. We talked for about an hour or two. He was so sweet and hilarious. The thing is he reminds me of my ex alot.. In the end my mom made me turn off my laptop for bed. Before I said bye, I asked for his twitter and he also gave me his number. I searched for his twitter & nothing came up. I want to text him but its been like 3 days. I'm scared it will be awkward. Should I just leave it or..

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hey if you think theres something potentially there, then go for it ! just text him and see if he responds and just talk like you wereee ! if you think its just a random thing that happened then i wouldnt bother

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Anonymous said: idk what to do because i'm a lesbian and my roommate is bisexual and we've hooked up a couple of times but she's talking to this guy now and i'm really upset because i kind of really like her and now we have to live together what should i do?

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i think you should just wait a little and see how much it bothers you, or if you could find someone else. if you cant after like a few weeks or so, tell her how you feel and how it bothers you that shes seeing this guy. or you can even tell her first! i would recommend waiting, because what if shes really happy and/or you find someone! but good luck ! 

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Anonymous said: thanks for responding, sorry if im picky but ive seen a few of those,how bout more romcoms/chickflciks maybe?

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a walk to remember, the notebook, the vow omg, white chicks deffs. mean girls obviously. john tucker must die, 21 and over.. sorry idr what i said last time haha. watch a step up movie or something :) 

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Anonymous said: I'm 17 but how can I get more comfortable around guys? They just make me soo nervous still

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just act like theyre family or something. or practice with like a guy friend.. just remind yourself in your head not to think about it and just act normal. you could possibly overthink what to say and stuff when youre around them and it cldmake you more nervous ! 

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Anonymous said: can you recommend any good films? i know this is for advice but i dont think i feel comfortable sharing with the internet and i just need a film to distract my thoughts, name a few :) please and thank you x

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omg yessss. lets see.

i love 27 dresses, wolf of wallstreet, great gatsby, anchorman 2, the heat, now you see me, tangled (or any disney movie if you have it), hmmm… i mean i guess those are like my favsss let me know if youwant mmore :) 

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Anonymous said: I never asked him to wait but, he is waiting everyone tells me he's waiting on me. I live thousands of miles away and I might not see him this year. Should I let him go ? Even though I never asked him to wait on me.

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its his choice whether or not he wants to wait. i mean, you should let him know that you might not be able to see him this year. and that you dont want to hold him back or whatever but in the end its his choice whether or not he wants to wait ! 

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Anonymous said: Do you think it's possible to love someone you barley know ? I feel like I know just by seeing him and talking to him.

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i guess it is possible! everyone falls in love different ways

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Anonymous said: Jessica one last time.. I'm so sorry for how long this is. One of his good friends says he deff thinks he likes me but idk I'm not sure. If one of his friends are talking to me like flirtatiously, he'll tell them to stop talking to his girl like that but then the next day he won't acknowledge me. Idk what to do... Idk if he's using me or not.

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i think you should just ask him. be like why dont you talk to me as much anymore… ever since weve had sex i feel like we kinda drifted when we arent together. and seee what he says. and you should hang out with him without having sex or doing anything and see how he acts.if he seems like pissed off or uninterested then hes probably using you, but if he doesnt seem to mind then he probably likes you. if you want you can even ask himstraight up if he likes you or not. see if he gives you a straight answer.

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Anonymous said: What should I do when my boyfriend cums first. He usually never makes me cum

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well you should tell him that he never makes you cum and that he should work on that. like if you want him to last longer tell him to masturbate like earlier on the day you hang out

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