Anonymous said: this guy is apparently asking me out soon.. idk if im readyfora relationship because I've never had one.. How do I know Im ready or not??

I said:

There’s no way to really tell. Just try it out and if it’s not for you, just be honest

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Hi everyone

So I haven’t been on lately, basically because I haven’t had time. I’m sorry for answering asks so late and everything. The past few weeks have just been a mess for me with both school and work and my personal life. I’ve pretty much been blogging from my iPad.
So ya I’m sorry for not answering right away! I’m going on an Easter break this week so hopefully I’ll be answering faster!
I hope you guys understand and again I apologize💜

Anonymous said: hi im the one from the last ask so i went to this thing last night and he was there and like we talked and hung out like old times and we didnt have the conversation about me telling him I liked him but I felt really good about everything and he turned back around to hug me goodbye but during the hug I was like "we'll have to talk eventually" and he said yep but then he told my friend he thought I was really cool last night but my comment was weird when he's been talking to my friends about it??

I said:

just text him or call him and call him out on it. Just be like okay you thought it was weird but you pretty much knew we Wld have to eventually. and tell him how it’s dumb that he’s talking to everyone else about it when he shld be talking to you! I Wld do that and see what he says. If he gets mad then he’s just being a coward and dumb. But hopefully hell finally talk to you about it

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Anonymous said: i think, i miss him...

I said:

is that a good or bad thingggg

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Anonymous said: There's this guy on my track team o like a lot and I know he's into me and we always flirt but I'm good at hiding my feelings so I guess he thinks o don't like him and we have a bus ride together Thursday any ideas on what I should do

I said:

Just be extra flirty and sit near him. Try to talk to him during the ride and get to know him a little better! Hopefully everything goes well😊

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Anonymous said: This guy and I have liked each other for 3 years, it hasnt gone anywhere because its long distance. Its not like we're exclusive or anything, hes had girlfriends and I don't really care. But everytime i vow to myself that im just going to forget about him, as a potential boyfriend or just a friend, he always pops back up through a text or a snapchat and I fall all over again. How am I ever going to get the courage to just walk away? I can't tell if this is a sign or a challenge from the universe

I said:

I’m not sure what it is either. That happened to me once. Once I forgot about him, he Wld try to talk to me again. I think if you want to completely erase him. Don’t answer. Delete him off snapchat and delete his number. Just don’t respond at all and just move forward. I promise it will help. If you think it’s a sign, then talk to him about it. Ask him why he tries to talk to you so randomly and everything. That’s what I would do !

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Anonymous said: im the one who likes someone but cant see myself with him. so do you think i should even give it a try and see where it goes cause i feel like hes the bigger person like hes way mature and i dont think i can keep up with his level as much as i want to.. i dont want to disappoint him. i really dont know what to do

I said:

It’s all your choice! In my opinion I would give it a chance. Even if you can’t see anything long term. Just try it out at least so you’re not left wondering about it. If you still can’t see yourself with this person after that, then just end it. And don’t worry about the maturity thing. If he’s the bigger person he shldnt be looking for so much in you.

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Anonymous said: So there's this boy I like and we always flirted and he told me he was into me but everything was so complicated and we gave each other mixed signals now he's going out with some other girl but how can I get him to notice me again?

I said:

just wait for the right moment to talk to him again. Just see if it lasts and if it doesn’t, talk to him and be flirty and just tell him how you feel. Say there were a bunch of mixed signals but I actually do have feelings

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Anonymous said: For my first time should I shave down there? Aha I'm sorry, weird question..

I said:

its okay ! and i would. idk thats just my opinion 

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Anonymous said: are there times where you like someone but you dont see yourself with them? or am i just being weird? cuase thats kinda how i feel right now. i dont know why

I said:

sorry i havent been on my laptop ! and yes. youre not being weird. thats like normal i  guess you can say. like you can like someone and their personality is perfect, but seeing yourself with them… not so much ! 

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