Anonymous said: what if you're too embarassed to tell him its your first time and then your cherry pops while you're doing it. im scared

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well i mean you might as well tell him because its probably gonna pop and hell know thennn. you should be comfortable with this person

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Anonymous said: what should you do after the cherry pops, wouldnt there be blood everywhere?

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lol omg its just so awkward. uhm i mean if youre having sex.. maybe put a towel down or somethinggg? but you can have it popped like other ways, like being fingered or even from sports, which sounds weird ! but yeah. idk just plan ahead if youre planning to have it popped like that night ahha

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Anonymous said: What's a good way to get a guy turned on

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some guys like when you kiss their neck or even tease them. like rub over his pants or something or whisper into his hear

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Anonymous said: How many times does it take for sex to stop hurting

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lol it depends on the girl i would sayyy. sometimes the cherry doesnt pop the first time or something so it hurts because of the pressure from that. usually after it pops its alot more enjoyable. and it could take time forrrr it to adjust because theyre not used to something that big in there if that makes sense

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Anonymous said: When your giving someone head should I do something with the balls too ?

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uhm only if you want toooo. i mean you can just play with them or blow on them or even lick them if you wanna. idk it depends on the guy. some guys like it and others dont want girls touching them 

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Anonymous said: I'm gay and I've known for a real long time now (I'm 18) and I've had secret girlfriends before and such and a few of my friend know...I want to tell my parents and it's not that they're homophobic it's just that they more have the attitude like "I don't care if other people are gay it doesn't affect me but I don't want my kids to be gay"...I want to tell them so I can be comfortable but I don't want to disappoint them

I said:

this is like the first time ive ever gotten an ask like this and omgggg. hi! 

personally, i dont think you should worry about disappointing them. yeah they might say they dont want their kids to be gay or whatever, but theyre going to love you no matter what. and you have to believe that. it might take some time for them to adjust and stuff, but they’re still gonna love you and care about you. i think you should just sit down and talk with them, or even if youre alone in the car with your mom or something. and just tell her/them. dont apologize for it, just say you want them to know so you can be comfortable! i think everything will turn out fine in the end <3 and good luck ! 

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Anonymous said: i dont know how to be more talkative. i always just smile or laugh when someone says something cause i cant come up with something to respond with and i think thats why i dont have many close friends cause i dont know how to communicate and have and on going conversation

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just try to make yourself comfortable and dont worry about what others are going to say. just say what comes to your mind.  you might be worrying about them judging you for saying the wrong thing but dont worry about itttt. just get comfortable and just speak 

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Anonymous said: is there a difference between having a crush on someone and liking someone?

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eh it depends lol. in my opinion, i think a crush is just like you think theyre great and cute and stuff but dont wanna take it further, but liking someone you actually have feelings for him and want to be with them 

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Anonymous said: Dear Kimm.. i've been bestfriends with this guy for a few months now and he's gone away on holiday.. this had led to him telling me he thinks 'us' is a good idea and he wants to take me on a date when he's home. i love the guy more than anything we're closer than anything but im unsure of what to do?.. what if something bad happened from this? but what if it worked so well?.. the friendzone is a killer! help please xx

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i think you should just go on a date with him and see how it works outttt ! i dont see how this could turn out baddd if he wants to take you on a date and likes the idea of “us” ! just try it out  

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Anonymous said: My boyfriend has been changing a lot lately, he used to never be on his phone when we hung out and now he's on it the whole time and we text less and he's always with his friends and I feel like I'm giving him 100% and he is not but expects me to put in all the effort and is getting lazy, what should I do because I don't want to lose him but I feel like I deserve more and he used to be so good to me before summer

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i think you should talk to him about it. and explain. say you dont wanna lose him but youdont want to be the only one putting effort in. and tell him what hes doing that bothers you. tell him how it feels like he texts you less and less, and that he didnt used to always be on his phone when you hung out. no offense, but boys are dumb sometimes and need you to spell like everything out for them and tell them what they did wrong 

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