Anonymous said: I'm gay and I've known for a real long time now (I'm 18) and I've had secret girlfriends before and such and a few of my friend know...I want to tell my parents and it's not that they're homophobic it's just that they more have the attitude like "I don't care if other people are gay it doesn't affect me but I don't want my kids to be gay"...I want to tell them so I can be comfortable but I don't want to disappoint them

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this is like the first time ive ever gotten an ask like this and omgggg. hi! 

personally, i dont think you should worry about disappointing them. yeah they might say they dont want their kids to be gay or whatever, but theyre going to love you no matter what. and you have to believe that. it might take some time for them to adjust and stuff, but they’re still gonna love you and care about you. i think you should just sit down and talk with them, or even if youre alone in the car with your mom or something. and just tell her/them. dont apologize for it, just say you want them to know so you can be comfortable! i think everything will turn out fine in the end <3 and good luck ! 

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Anonymous said: i dont know how to be more talkative. i always just smile or laugh when someone says something cause i cant come up with something to respond with and i think thats why i dont have many close friends cause i dont know how to communicate and have and on going conversation

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just try to make yourself comfortable and dont worry about what others are going to say. just say what comes to your mind.  you might be worrying about them judging you for saying the wrong thing but dont worry about itttt. just get comfortable and just speak 

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Anonymous said: is there a difference between having a crush on someone and liking someone?

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eh it depends lol. in my opinion, i think a crush is just like you think theyre great and cute and stuff but dont wanna take it further, but liking someone you actually have feelings for him and want to be with them 

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Anonymous said: Dear Kimm.. i've been bestfriends with this guy for a few months now and he's gone away on holiday.. this had led to him telling me he thinks 'us' is a good idea and he wants to take me on a date when he's home. i love the guy more than anything we're closer than anything but im unsure of what to do?.. what if something bad happened from this? but what if it worked so well?.. the friendzone is a killer! help please xx

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i think you should just go on a date with him and see how it works outttt ! i dont see how this could turn out baddd if he wants to take you on a date and likes the idea of “us” ! just try it out  

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Anonymous said: My boyfriend has been changing a lot lately, he used to never be on his phone when we hung out and now he's on it the whole time and we text less and he's always with his friends and I feel like I'm giving him 100% and he is not but expects me to put in all the effort and is getting lazy, what should I do because I don't want to lose him but I feel like I deserve more and he used to be so good to me before summer

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i think you should talk to him about it. and explain. say you dont wanna lose him but youdont want to be the only one putting effort in. and tell him what hes doing that bothers you. tell him how it feels like he texts you less and less, and that he didnt used to always be on his phone when you hung out. no offense, but boys are dumb sometimes and need you to spell like everything out for them and tell them what they did wrong 

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Anonymous said: Six months ago I had a "thing" with a guy. A few days after we hung out he just stopped talking to me, and hasn't talked to me since. I don't know what I did wrong and I'm still curious. I want to find out what happened but there's no way I can talk to him

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well you need to find a way! even if its through a friend or facebook. if you have a friend that talks to him, just have them casuallybring up what happened between you guys and why it ended. or look him up on facebook or twitter ! 

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Anonymous said: I have a boyfriend and I really really really love him and have been in love with him for a long time and he's my best friend and I can't imagine how my life would be without him.. but at the same time I'm finding myself bored with him and starting to like look for attention in other guys.. what should I do? is that normal?

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okay so ive been dating my boyfriend for like 5 years now, on and off.  and if you truly think youre inlove with him, then dont do anything to fuck it up. because soemtimes i think im bored and ill fight with him or whatever and think i want something new, but then he stops talking to me and i just cant see myself without him. and also, we did break up once because i thought iwanted someone else. and i changed my mind like 2 seconds later and it was too late at the time… in my opinion i would just stay with him, because you might regret it if you do break up and try to get with other guys ! 

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Anonymous said: All my friends don't like my bestfriend and always say rude stuff about her in front on me. I want them all to be friends but they don't want to do anything with eachother

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tell them that they should give her a chance. just be like please hang out with her once for me, if its really that terrible for you guys i wont ask again. hopefully theyll give it a shot and maybe things will work out. or you can even say that you dont like what they say about her and its not fair to you beause shes still your friend 

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Anonymous said: My bestfriend has another bestfriend that goes to a different school. They've known eachother since birth and are super close. I always feel like I'm second choice with them, what do I do

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confront her about it and tell her. just say you feel like a second choice and you want to be closer to them so you dont feel left out. they probably dont even realize and they probably wont unless you say something 

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Anonymous said: + I guess to ask me to hang out and like she won't tell me what she send him and im really stressed out and annoyed because he's probably gonna think I sent her and that im clingy or like too scared to ask to hang out which is really annoying and im just bothered right now and I don't know what to do

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i think you should just text him and be like im sorry if my friend is annoying you, for some reason she reallywants us to hang out but i told her that you would text me if you wanted to. i would like explain yourself to him and that its not you telling her to say those things. say you dont even know what shes been saying or anythting. im sure it will be fine because if you guys do have feelings for each other, then hell wanna hang out anywayysss. and youre already not being too clingy but not texting him and bothering him ! if he doesnt end up asking you, i would wait like a few days and then just askkkk

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