dear I don’t even know right now,

first off im sorry to hear what you were dealing with :/ if your friends wont hang out with you, then that’s their fault. if you try then they should too or else they are not real friends. you shouldnt think so much when you’re with this guy, just BE YOURSELF ! dont worry about what to do or say. just do whatever you want ! you’re thinking too much thats why you keep freezing now that he wont talk to you, thats his fault. if you’ve been on and off for three years, ill think hell come around again. just make it up to him ! and its okay that you need to rant ahha. but wow he doesnt seem that great of a guy. i think you’ve just been with him for so long it just hurts to not talk to him and hear that hes been with someone else. you should just forget about him so he doesnt destroy your happieness. i dont know. it seems like you really like him. and the idea is great to just show up looking great. but i think, when you should up looking great, ignore him. let him know what he is missing! dont go back to him so easily <3 and im sorry if this was confusing i was answering with each ask you sent !

i think when you go back, you can find osmeone 43985389 times better than him ! 

from,

kimmm 

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:36pm

dear sooooo unsure,

i think you should talk to your friend about it. tell him you still like him. screw dibbs. if shes a good friend shell understand and stop liking him. if not. then let her go for him. and then when they break up, be there for himm and just keep talking to him through the relationship so he realizes how great you are. but dont dis your friend so much and make her hate you. friends > boys !

from,

kimm

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:23pm

Anonymous asked: Hi Kim, I like this boy and he likes me but he's a player , and the biggest flirt but he makes me feel so damn special and im close to giving in to dating him, but i know hes a player and dating him will ruin my reputation. what should i do? -WhatToDo

how will it ruin your reputation? if you like him and he likes you, go for it, yolo. seriously.. lol sorry for using that. but idk i think you should go for it. if you dont like it you can always break up with him. and who cares what other people think ?! as long as youre happy with him it shouldnt matter ! 

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:20pm

Anonymous asked: I can't tell if this guy likes me. We met on a study abroad trip and hung out all the time while we were overseas. While we were there he was always flirty and started playing "the ass" game where you slap other people's butts...BUT he only played with me even though I never reciprocated. Once we got home we stayed in touch. Now at school, we text sometimes. I have slept in his bed with him twice now even though he hasn't made a move... Could he like me?

i think he can. maybe hes just scared about whether its too soon to start something. soome guys are like that. you should just be really flirty. maybe be a little touchy with him. not like oh hey ill just stick my hand down your pants now, just like give him hugs when youre with him and stay close. talk to him and see what hes feeling ! 

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:18pm

dear ms lonely,

if youwant new friends, just talk to other people ! just be friendly and make new friends. if you want your old friends back, try talking to them. just start off new ! and see if they’ll do the same ! you cant stick to just one friend. you need to open up and hang out with new people ! i promise its worth it ! 

from,

kim

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:14pm

dear dont want to be hurt,

depends. i think you should ask him to stop texting his ex. just say you;re scared about losing him. if he reassures you hes not, just say but it really bothers me :( please ! and just beg him not to. if he still does. ask again ! 

if you dont wanna do that, then just leave it alone, and see if it becomes more constant. if he does, then say something.

from,

kimm

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:13pm

Anonymous asked: This guy from school keeps on sending me mixed messages , i dont wanna fall for him because i dont know if he is joking or he is serious he 'touches' me and calls me his ''wifey' my freinds say dont fall for him but i just dont know what to do....

hang out with him and see how he acts. see if he still acts that wy infront of his friends. and ask him about it. see who he likes. 

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:09pm

Anonymous asked: Basically one of my sisters friends has a 19yr old brother. and we started talking and stuff and now he wants me to be in a relationship with him but am only 14 years old and if my sister finds out am dead. And i dont know if the feeling is lust or love...

im going to try and not sound like a bitch when i am answer this.

if you are 14 and he is 19. he doesnt actually like you. its not love at all. you shouldnt like someone 5 years older than you this young. find someone your own age. 

i watched a video in child psych last week. it was about a 12 year old who went out with a 17 year old. turns out, he only wanted her for sex. and used her for 3 years for sex. and forced her to do things. then one day she got pregnant and he murdered her. 

you should not like a 19 year old at your age. im sorry. 

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:08pm
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dear D,

i think you should make him come home, but dont hang out with him.. be like oh sorry im busy.. maybe next week or something. if you blow him off, hell get mad, but he might get the message ! if you dont wanna do that, talk to him about it in person. and just tell him EXACTLY what you are feeling ! 

from,

kimm

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:06pm

Anonymous asked: i dont know what to do. the guy i liked had a thing with this other girl and since i livein a very small neighborhood, he is able to walk to her house. We had a relationship a while ago, and my friend didnt know about it. It was short, like we never kissed or anything, but still. One night while me and her were having a sleepover, he came in through her window. She knew he was coming and yet shestill didnt tell me. They madeout and he felt her up. Im only in eighth grade and I dont kno what todo

well thats not very nice of your friend. but i think you should just forget about him any moveon ! and you should let your friend know that that hurt what she did to you. 

3 months ago on February 28, 2012 at 06:04pm